Parent Invading Privacy. I Need Help!?
Question by Matthew A: Parent invading privacy. I need help!?
WARNING: Everything in this post is 100% true. It has some very nasty stuff no parent should do to their kid. If you want to lock this go ahead, but I need help before I snap.
My parents are very strict, my dad likes to tease me and such by claiming I am a mistake. Somedays I feel like killing him, or myself or just running away. Well today is probably the worst thing ever.
Today my parents came in asking for them to see my phone and everything on it, my computer and all it’s history, my Netflix dvd, and all my clothes off without covering my area. I refused to do any of those. I asked why, and my parents gave me the simple, “You don’t need to know” answer. Well they did a thorough inspection of everything including my area. And then after that they said they have evidence that I masturbated last night ( in fact i did, but we just got home from a 3 day vacation in Jacksonville, and i wanted to relieve stress). But I’m a 16 year old male who still has to be watched when going to the bathroom. I’ve never done drugs or alcohal, I’m still a virgin, I’ve been single all my life, I do have a temper (I’m Italian-German) so I can get really mad really fast. So when they asked me to take all my clothes off I asked them why I couldn’t have the smallest of privacy like my area, going to bathroom or masturbating. It’s not like I’m doing anything to hurt myself which I’m not. But when they burst into my door unannounced to check every single inch of my room, I get really mad. And don’t even give me that “Cause they love you” bullshit cause they don’t, I’m a mistake, my dad wishes I never existed, and they just overall don’t love me.
So my question is what should I do?
Should I betray them like they did to me and ruin the family by claiming child abuse?
Should I run away to find a better life?
I really really need help. Not just with this problem but psychologically. No kid of any age should have gone through what I’ve been through.
Best answer:
Answer by Lily Valance
report them, that isn’t right
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